There are VERY FEW Chances to Meet People Outside Your Immediate Circle.

You're not just going to run into someone working from home. 

You're at the age where you don't meet a lot of people. It's almost impossible to meet people in the dating circle - professionals, single people. 

It's not like it was back in college, when you were surrounded by people, and it was so easy to meet.

A certain expectation has been set for you, in terms of how you want to feel. 

If you found someone you were attracted to, and you liked each other, then you could definitely take it forward. 

You've Given Up on Dating Apps.

You've tried them before. It doesn't really work that much, at least in your experience. There's A LOT of work you have to put in. You don't have a lot of time to put into doing that work. 

Even if you start chatting with someone, the chances of that leading to a relationship are not that great. People don't know what they really want, or they're into something casual. There are a lot of roadblocks to getting into a relationship. 

Getting enough matches, enough responses, getting those choices… it's one of those big obstacles. You're not getting the responses you want, from the people in whom you're actually interested. People with good conversations will just ghost you. Or they're just looking for something short-term. 

Some people want to keep it going, but you don't want to ghost them, so then they keep pursuing you. 

You're talking to every person from scratch, and you've already spoken to so many people. Now, you're just bored of this. It ends up to nothing, and feels so frustrating. 

It feels like investing a lot of time into people. Then you stop, uninstall those apps. 

Dating apps are a whole new world. You cannot be on a dating app; it doesn't click to you. It's just not you. 

You see yourself with a globally-mobile professional.

You want to have access to talk to a lot more people than what the dating apps allow. A way that people would be open to talking to you, and then deciding if they want to date you. Not just based on your pictures, or your profile. 

You want to find people you can have a proper conversation with. Where you'd want to know more about the person, where you find the person attractive. 

Someone who wants to have a life together, travel together. Someone ready for the first step into something longer. 

If you have enough choices, if the person is on a level with whom you can communicate, then the other things like logistics and timing can be figured out. 

You're ready now, to meet someone.

You're at the stage of life where you're looking for a life partner.

Career-wise, hobby-wise, things are good. Right now, this is something you really want. You're in a place where you can give back.

You do have the time right now to invest in your dating life. The right candidates for you to put in time. Now is the time to find the right partner. 

You've always wanted it; the effort has been going on for some time. You're willing to put the effort into someone. 

You need people who are grounded, mature, responsible, who want to get into commitment. People who want to settle. Someone ambitious, fun-loving. Someone stable, self-reliant, who can support themselves. 

Someone who's prepared to take a calculated risk with moving their life forward, go on adventures. Someone who isn't going to put a time limit on getting into something with you. 

There have got to be places where you can engage with the right people.

You're Not Able to Find Someone.

People lack dedication: they lose interest very fast. It's very difficult to look for longevity. 

It's like, they'll accept to go for a date. But if there's the slightest thing they do not like, f*ck it. They'll just go to the next one. 

Whoever you're meeting, they are not interested, or they don't take it as seriously. Or maybe they're serious enough, and there's something else which is not matching. 

Either you get ghosted, or the nicer way, you get told "I don't think it's going to work." There are always some excuses not to even start something. The reasons are very obscure. They don't give any reason of what happened. 

Ghosting/not replying/blocking texts is such common behaviour. 

There have been so many ups and downs! You didn't know if this person you liked didn't really want it, or they were just shy to express themselves. 

The hard work has been lost away. 

Not knowing if it's going to happen - it makes you really uncomfortable. 

All these experiences, they build up a sense of frustration and anxiety. 

You're not asking for somene to give you everything right away; just someone who's willing to put in that effort. 

Always, nothing materialised. 

You're not looking for friends. 

You have all these apps, swiping left and right, but nothing materialises. 

Maybe you installed Hinge, met 2-3 people. They were not serious about things; they were just looking for casual stuff. Just time pass, as friends. You are not really interested in that; you have friends. 

There's no connection/chemistry, something like that. 

It's not someone's fault, it's just the way it is: It's not the right match, not the right connection. 

You've learnt to keep your emotions in control, because a lot of the times, it just blew up in your face. 

Maybe you got used to it, thinking: "Okay, whatever." But you're disappointed, in a way. You build up expectations and it blows up in your face... 

You're Fed Up. 

Either you'll eventually find someone, or you'll just keep on getting disappointment.

Maybe you're already seeing the effects.

And sometimes you start to hate the opposite sex. 

You cannot blame someone in particular. But it is frustrating. 

You feel a bit melancholic. 

You're fed up of waiting to find the right person. It feels hard to achieve, and you don't see it coming. 

You're fed up of going into all this stuff. You're very confused and you feel low when you think about this.

"Why am I not getting the right person?" you might be wondering. 

You're definitely looking for a Serious Relationship.

You definitely want to meet people who are in a similar mindset. Not just for going on a few dates and that's it.

You're just trying to meet suitable profiles who would be a good match on a personality level. You have fun together, because you have compatible personalities. 

You're interested and keen to meet people who are serious about companionship and relationship. People who are clear on what they're looking for in life. 

People who are serious about their dating lives. There might be many cases like you - People who are looking to find someone with whom to eventually get into a serious relationship. 

That's the ultimate goal: to meet someone who likes you, who's ready for something deep.  To start your own family, even if it's just the two of you. 

Imagine Finding the Perfect Partner.

What if your life was different?

Lets skip all the dating steps and get you to being in a relationship with the best partner: you both have a lot of fun together.

Imagine a different kind of daily routine:

You're still dating, not yet married. You're figuring things out together. You're discovering each other's personalities, different mentalities.

You're learning new things about each other every day. Figuring out the vibe behind their likes and dislikes. Discovering what you have in common.

Someone Who's There When You Come Home.

When you go back home, there's someone there waiting for you. 

You have someone to dream with. Someone to make plans with. 

On weekends, maybe you'll go hiking, do some outdoorsy stuff.

Or find a cuisine that neither of you have tried, and experiment with it. 

You'll eat breakfast at home - one of you will cook something. Maybe they'll make the eggs and you'll prepare coffee. 

For lunch, you might order in - like some curries, or a pizza for two. 
During the week, you wake up together, even if you each do your own things during the day. 

For dinner, you might go out and check out some new places in the city. 

It's fun. 

At the end of a long day at work, they're there.

Someone you can come home to, a partner you can cook with.

Normal life stuff. 

Someone With Whom to Share Your Feelings.

You invest your time and emotions to understand them in and out. 

You have someone to take care of, to love. It's a different love than what you share with your friends, or your family. 

Someone who cherishes the value of a relationship,

It would feel nice and magical. It's a doorway to a deeper connection. 

Someone who will take care of you. 

Someone who feels comfortable accepting you, supporting you. 

You're learning how to love and respect each other. Just taking care of each other. 

It's something nice you can add to your life. It's much nicer to live with someone, rather than living alone.

You can take care of yourself, but you want to be with someone who can carry the family in case there's a need. 

Someone Compatible.

You find someone who complements you. They balance out the things where you're not good, and vice versa. This way, you're helping each other succeed.

It's like an energy thing. You know it when you meet the person. There's a certain vibe, a certain look. You're just attracted to them. You get along with each other easily. You're this one energy together, and you both believe in what the other is doing. 

There's that balance in the way you communicate, in how you communicate. You consider their thoughts, and take them into consideration when you do something in life. 

There's that Feeling of Comfort.

You find someone who complements you. They balance out the things where you're not good, and vice versa. This way, you're helping each other succeed.

It's like an energy thing. You know it when you meet the person. There's a certain vibe, a certain look. You're just attracted to them. You get along with each other easily. You're this one energy together, and you both believe in what the other is doing. 

There's that balance in the way you communicate, in how you communicate. You consider their thoughts, and take them into consideration when you do something in life. 

It's so mental - you don't have to hold back. 

It's like: "This is my friend, whom I trust, and they're going to be there for me."

They know you're a real person, and can love you as you are. Messy, moody, looking like a witch. 

Maybe people call that naive, but ther's no relationship if you can't share things. 

A Sense of Belonging. 

You'd belong to that person, and they to you. You'd feel this warmth, like you just want to be with each other .

They stick around when things go south. They understand that life is not just going to dinners together. 

They are there when things are rocky, when you need them. They don't back off when things become difficult. They know your value. 

You come back from work, you come home, tehre's someone there waiting for you. That's your idea of belonging. 

A Sense of Ease.

When you get to the stage where you've been with someone for a long tiem, you feel more relaxed, at ease, more calm, at peace.

The ability to express yourself is easy. You don't have to guess at everything. 

You found someone who's really peaceful. 

A Deep Sense of Security.

You have the security of having someone. This person is going to be with you in the future. You're creating a home together, which gives you some security. 

Being with your partner during the difficult times, that's the most important part of the relationship. You feel a sense of inner peace. 

You really care for each other. You think of things in their best interest, without being angry at them. 

It's about nurturing the other person: you help them succeed, become great in this world, feel happier. 

Things are steady. 

Imagine being at a point where things are more steady. The  chances are higher that it will continue. 

The longer you stay together, the more cemented the relationship is

You have this steady emotional life - it's even more important than a career. You have someone who is there for you, even in the difficult times. 

You start to dream about a future. 

Being the romantic type, it happens automatically. 

You can picture it: Having children together. 

The more it advances, the more you can pinpoint it. 

In your head, maybe you can see the anniversary of the first year. You have that level of expansion. 

That emotional connection.

You're looking for love. You're an emotional person, and you want to have deep conversations. 

It's always been an important thing, it's not only that it's important right now. 

You like spending time with this person. You have an emotional connection. 

During life, this is one of, if not the only thing that truly matters. 

A Genuine, Real Sense of Attraction. 

The thing you'd know immediately is attraction. 

For you to mak a connection, you have to have an attraction towards the person. 

It's not very difficult to achieve: If you see them, you'd know, okay, you're attracted to them. 

It's not being very microscopic. When you see the person, it's a yes, or a no. 

You want someone with whom you have that sense of chemistry and attraction, but also that sense of long-term stability. 

Yes! You have other options:

We've already seen that Perfect Match works. The introductions, strategies, and systems you'll receive inside Perfect Match have been applied over 10+ years, in 17+ countries. The Perfect Match system has helped 100's of students find a Serious Relationship based on True Emotional Connection.

What would it cost to learn this yourself? I like to be candid with all your options, so you're fully informed.

Get an MBA?

$150,000 ($507,526 paid off over 25 years, including interest on student loans).

"Maybe you should do an MBA, you can meet some guys," an Aunty once told me. That's $150,000, all costs included, from a top-tier school (where you meet high-value options).

Most graduate students are married. The few who are single are hyper-focused on getting a good job after graduation, or out partying. You'll learn deep theory about management, organisational psychology, and accounting, and you might improve your career prospects. According to statistics, fewer than 1% of top performers meet their life partners at graduate school.

Hiring a 1:1 Professional Matchmaker?

€‎25,000 (€‎3k x 12 months).

We take on 1-2 clients each month in the Marriage

Mastermind, our high-touch 1:1 Matchmaking Programme. They get 1-2 dates PER MONTH.

Our partner matchmakers in Europe and North America charge similar rates, and provide even fewer options. We are experts in human behaviour and psychology, with degrees from top universities, but there are also many quacks out there, who wring their hands and tell you that you're being "rigid" and "difficult".

And you'll pay many times the cost of Perfect Match.