Our Process

Over the past few years, I’ve worked with 200+ highly-qualified professionals in 29 cities across Europe make progress in their personal lives, and get closer to the right person.

I use a signature matchmaking process fine-tuned through working with hundreds of individuals.

On this page, you’ll learn more about my signature matchmaking process, and understand if it’s the right approach for you.

Introductory Matchmaking Call

Step 1: Introductory Matchmaking Call

Our initial consultation will help you understand a little bit more about the process and how it will work. It’s important you feel confident that this is the way you’d like to find love and your future life partner. Matchmaking isn’t right for everyone- it’s important you feel comfortable with both the matchmaking team and the concept!

The clients we work with believe in using experts in all areas of their life. They’ve often had business mentors or personal trainers- they strive for success and want to do it in the quickest and most effective way possible.

Read through the information on this page, and about Matchmaking Membership Programme, to learn more about our process, what you can expect, and programme fees, and outcomes.

If you’d like to join our Matchmaking Programme, let’s set up a call to talk about your profile and how we can help you find your life partner.

CLICK HERE to book a call with Malaika.

All calls are hosted on Zoom, in a secure online environment. While the call is completely free and does not engage you in any paid programme, it requires a booking fee of 1 euro to cover administrative costs.

Step 2: Matchmaking Registration

If matchmaking is right for you, you’ll be invited to join one of two premium matchmaking programmes, on a follow-up Zoom call.

You may register for this programme by completing payment of the programme fee. Registration is completed live via a Zoom call.

Once you are registered, you will receive access to all programme materials via email. You will also receive a link to schedule a follow-up call with your matchmaker. You’ll be invited to create your matchmaking profile, update your social media so that it gives the best first impression, and tell us about your vision for your relationship.

We also work with a professional photographer, who will help you prepare the right photos for your profile.

Step 3: Start Receiving Matches.

You will receive potential matches via email. You will receive vital information about a potential match, including:

  • Profession, location, age
  • What they are looking for
  • Their interests, hobbies, and lifestyle

If you agree to a meeting, you will be invited to select a mutually convenient time + date to meet on Zoom.

The first three meetings are held on Zoom. If you’d like to go further, you can switch to phone meetings, or set up an in-person meeting.

Are You Ready for a Long-Term Relationship?

Is this right for you? - Matchmaking Process

Somehow you feel like arranged marriage is not for you. You’re very broad minded. You’ve been living abroad for a while now. You feel like… Your mindset with the traditional mentality is not matching nowadays.

You’re a little inclined towards Western culture. You don’t want to get married just for the sake of it. For many of your friends, it didn’t happen – they never fell in love. But for you, that falling in love part is more important than just settling down to satisfy societal expectations. You want to have a true connection with someone, be able to connect on multiple levels, to build something beautiful together.

There have been so many other things you’ve been concentrating on – work, studies, family, finding a place to live. They took a lot of time/energy/resources.

Now that you’ve accomplished all those things, you feel like, what next. It was adventurous. Your next question is: What’s next?

Only you can truly know whether you are relationship ready. Remember, we cannot provide a relationship – we can only provide an introduction. You need to have the time and energy to invest in making sure that you can develop that introduction into a stable and committed relationship. We will of course be there to help and support you as necessary but you must help us, help you. If the idea of this daunts you, or you don’t feel that you have the time to invest then you’re probably not ready to start your search with us for a life partner.

The Matchmaking Process

The Matchmaking Process

You feel you can devote time to someone… you both can stay together, you both can have a very good time together. If you can start a relationship, you can get more support from them. You can build each other up. You’re ready to take the steps to start this phase of your life. You want an external perspective, and you want to get connected to someone who is professional, educated, and ambitious, just like yourself.

For you, dating is not like, you go for 6 months, 1 year, if your partners intentions are not in the long term, not in marriage, then it’s not good. Your intention is not just to go to restaurant and movies for 6-8 months, only to have your partner say: “I just wanted to get to know you, not be in a relationship.”

Your goal is to meet someone for a long-term relationship, and understand if that person is right for you. It’s all about character.  It’s not about external beauty.

As a Professional Indian Matchmaker, I am personally connected with people. I stand in a position to connect you with someone else. I’m committed to finding a high-quality match for you, and connecting you to a potential life partner who shares your mindset and values. Let’s find you someone who can support your goals.

As your Matchmaker, I personally interview each and every single person who joins my elite database of professional.

Your Criteria

Your Criteria - Matchmaking Process

You expect quality: to meet someone who’s in the same mindset, with criteria with which you’re both mutually comfortable. You’re looking for someone who matches your interests in life.

We work together to define your criteria, preferences, and requirements. We also seek to understand and identify any requirements that your family might have, as part of the process.

We do our best to respect your preferences on education levels, cultural background, and geography.

Please note: we do not curate/filter/identify matches based on caste, height, and skin colour. If these variables are essential to you or to your family, you may explore these topics 1:1 with potential matches. Presently, we are unable to include these variables in our search and profile creation process.

CLICK HERE to see a sample of the kinds of individuals you could meet.

Your Profile

Your Profile - Matchmaking Process

Every single week, smart, interesting individuals from across Europe reach out to me for help with finding someone special – that soulmate they haven’t yet found.

As a Professional Indian Matchmaker, I draw upon 10+ years of experience working with diverse cultures and ethnographies to individually and intentionally vet only those who are ready, willing, and able to start a long-term relationship starting today.

We work exclusively with educated, ambitious professionals. This means you are:

  1. Formally educated – with at least a Bachelor’s Degree from an accredited university.
  2. Ambitious – having or showing a strong desire and determination to succeed in your professional and personal life.
  3. Stable – you are at a point in life where you can commit to this process mentally, emotionally, financially, and physically.
  4. Serious – you are ready for a long-term relationship with the right person.

My work as a matchmaker and relationship coach is informed by an  an academic foundation in human behaviour and psychology.

Our members are highly successful, whether through academic achievement, extensive travel and exploration of the globe, creative or artistic prowess, philanthropy or working in MNCs. You embrace the continual journey of self-development and improvement on the path to finding the right person for you.

YES, it’s okay if you’ve been divorced.

YES, it’s okay if your parents got divorced.

YES, it’s okay if you have kids already.

YES, it’s okay if you are LGBTQ+.

We are happy to consider your profile. We invite you to decide if you are ready to commit fully to this journey.

Your Matches

Your Matches - Our Matchmaking Process

You’re probably good at analysing a person. You can speak to them for at least one hour, get what they’re like. You’re willing to take time to get to know the person, at least six months, before going for something more serious. It could be one month from now or 3 months from now, it doesn’t matter. If I like them, you’d like to get married, settle down. You would tell your parents/familyabout them. And if your family is okay with this person, you can go ahead.

It’s not that somebody has to match 100% your requirements. People are always different. It’s all about understanding.

You want to find someone who can be committed. The ultimate goal would be to get married later. Someone who’s open-minded, very simple.

We identify a curated list of people who are a very strong match to the specific criteria you have identified. People who are also excited about your profile.

Your matchmaker’s expert advice and insights will help you grow. As we work together, you will gain a deeper understanding of exactly what you should be looking for in your ideal partner.

We will review profiles with you, but you are always in complete control and will enjoy meeting only the most compatible individuals — with complete discretion.

You will receive an email proposing a meeting with a specific profile. If you (and they) agree to the meeting, you will select a mutually-convenient time and date to get to know each other better.

The Meetings (Dates)

The Meetings - Our Matchmaking Process

You will receive potential matches via email. You will receive vital information about a potential match, including:

  • Profession, location, age
  • What they are looking for
  • Their interests, hobbies, and lifestyle

If you agree to a meeting, you will be invited to select a mutually convenient time + date to meet on Zoom.

For the meetings, we’ll start with 30-60 min meetings on Zoom with potential matches. As you get to know each other, you can increase your time investment based on how much you want to talk to them. This could be just a few minutes on the phone, sending some text messages, or meeting on the weekends (when it’s possible).

The first three meetings are held on Zoom. If you’d like to go further, you can switch to phone meetings, or set up an in-person meeting.

Working with a Professional Matchmaker

Malaika Neri - Professional Indian Matchmaker in the EU
Malaika Neri – Professional Indian Matchmaker in Europe

Each month, you’ll have a meeting with your matchmaker to discuss potential matches, your approach to this process, and how you can increase your chances for success.

You’ll have a lifetime access to my premium online course, where you’ll learn the mindsets, strategies, and communication tools to create a healthy, happy relationship with the right person, through worksheets, videos, and group coaching calls. We recommend 5 hours per week for meetings, group coaching, and working on the exercises in the online programme.

You’ll have unlimited email access to me – it’s up to you how much time you want to invest in emails.

I’ll be busy arranging meetings for you while you go about your daily routine. This process takes all the hassle, stress, and frustration out of meeting/selecting/verifying/browsing so you can finally meet the person you want on your own terms.

Your job is to participate in meetings, be honest and open about what you’re looking for, and enjoy getting to know new people. We do not ask you to log on every day and browse through millions of profiles. To be absolutely certain, we’ll ask you to confirm which profiles you’d most like to meet before we begin setting up your meetings. That way you can be assured that you’ll always be looking forward to each and every person you meet.

Throughout the process, we will respect your family’s preferences as much as possible (and where necessary). At the end of the day, you are meeting someone who will become part of your family.

 

Frequently Asked Questions

  1. What are your sources? How and from where are you going to find a exact match for me?

Every single week, smart, interesting individuals from across Europe reach out to me for help with finding someone special - that soulmate they haven't yet found. As a Professional Indian Matchmaker, I draw upon 10+ years of experience working with diverse cultures and ethnographies to individually and intentionally vet only those who are ready, willing, and able to start a long-term relationship starting today. I work exclusively with educated professioanals resident in Europe.

Every single week, smart, interesting individuals from across Europe reach out to me for help with finding someone special – that soulmate they haven’t yet found.

As a Professional Indian Matchmaker, I draw upon 10+ years of experience working with diverse cultures and ethnographies to individually and intentionally vet only those who are ready, willing, and able to start a long-term relationship starting today.

I work exclusively with educated professionals resident in Europe. If your country of residence is visible in the image above, we can consider you for our matchmaking programme. Click HERE to read more about where we work.

  1. What if I don’t find a match through your program?.

Each month, you’ll have a meeting with your matchmaker to discuss potential matches, your approach to this process, and how you can increase your chances for success.

Additionally, you’ll have a lifetime access to my premium online course, where you’ll learn the mindsets, strategies, and communication tools to create a healthy, happy relationship with the right person, through worksheets, videos, and group coaching calls.

You will be introduced to matches, AND you learn where and how to find the right person based on your specific criteria. Our goal is for you to find your life partner, with or without a matchmaker.

3. What is your success rate? How many people have you already matched ?

Over the past few years, I’ve worked with 200+ highly-qualified professionals in 29 cities across Europe make progress in their personal lives, and get closer to the right person.

I use a signature matchmaking process fine-tuned through working with hundreds of individuals.

On this page, you’ll learn more about my signature matchmaking process, and understand if it’s the right approach for you.

Only you can truly know whether you are relationship ready. Remember, we cannot provide a relationship – we can only provide an introduction. You need to have the time and energy to invest in making sure that you can develop that introduction into a stable and committed relationship. We will of course be there to help and support you as necessary but you must help us, help you. If the idea of this daunts you, or you don’t feel that you have the time to invest then you’re probably not ready to start your search with us for a life partner.

4. How much time should I need to spend on this process?. I am normally very busy during working days.

We recommend 5 hours per week for meetings, group coaching, and working on the exercises in the online programme.

5. How long is this valid?

Your database registration has unlimited validity – we will send you matches as long as you choose to keep your profile active.

The Matchmaking Programme Professional Membership is 6 months long.

6. Can I trust you?

As a Professional Indian Matchmaker, I draw upon 10+ years of experience working with diverse cultures and ethnographies to individually and intentionally vet only those who are ready, willing, and able to start a long-term relationship starting today.

My work as a matchmaker and relationship coach is informed by an  an academic foundation in human behaviour and psychology.

Click HERE to see testimonials from previous clients.

Ready to get started with matchmaking?

Read through the information on this page, and about Matchmaking Membership Programme, to learn more about our process, what you can expect, and programme fees, and outcomes.

If you’d like to join our Matchmaking Programme, let’s set up a call to talk about your profile and how we can help you find your life partner.

CLICK HERE to book a call with Malaika.