The goal is to get commitment from a guy, right?
But then you meet someone amazing, and then he says those five horrible words…
“I’m not ready for a relationship right now,” he says.
Turns out, you and he are not quite on the same page when it comes to commitment.
It can be frustrating, especially when you’re looking for more than just a casual connection. You’re dreaming of a future filled with love, stability, and the joy of building a family together. You deserve someone who shares your dreams and values, someone who is just as eager as you are to settle down.
What’s a financially-independent woman who’s ready for commitment to do?
In this short video, I’ve put together a simple script to guide you through those tough conversations with guys who may not be ready for commitment. It’s all about empowering yourself with the right words and the confidence to know what you truly deserve.
Something I’ve learned in my years of matchmaking: guys are simple creatures who truly value when we tell them exactly what we want and need.
Think about it – they appreciate clarity and directness. It’s like giving them a roadmap to make you happy! Whether it’s expressing how you like to be treated, what gestures make you feel loved, or even the kind of relationship you’re looking for, speaking up can make all the difference.
Being open about your expectations doesn’t mean you’re demanding; it means you’re confident and know what you deserve. Plus, it saves everyone time and energy – no more guessing games!
So, next time you’re thinking, “Does he get what I’m hinting at?” Remember, he’ll probably thank you for just telling him straight up!
Remember, your time is precious, and it’s okay to be upfront about your intentions – it’s the only way to get commitment from a guy. By being clear about what you’re looking for, you’re honoring yourself and paving the way to find someone who’s ready to embark on this journey with you.
Stay strong, stay true to yourself, and trust that the right person is out there, ready to share in your dreams. Let’s dive into this reel and equip ourselves with the tools to navigate the dating world with grace and determination! 💖
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Hi Malaika - this is a great initiative ; I personally believe that traditionally, dating /social interactions with the opposite gender has not been encouraged in the Indian society and that unknowingly has tremendous repercussions on relationships - so, KUDOS to you for launching this platform !!
Additionally, I agree with your message about keeping things simple. However, when people start taking advice literally, without applying common sense (in other words, take everything with a grain of salt), there are chances a perfectly sane advice can backfire.
Without going into a lot of details about. myself, I did want to ask you if your target audience is mostly 20-30s or even people who are looking to hit restart button with their life and/or relationships :)
Thanks for your comment! :) Yes, we're currently focusing on women 27-35 who want to get married and one day start a family. Agree with you, sometimes you just want to hit the restart button with life and relationships! Happy to have you here :)