You might not be completely a Westerner, nor a completely traditional person. But you’re ready to go forward with this stage in your life. This is a opportunity to meet validated leads – people who also want something serious. It cuts short 80% of the time wasted.
You might feel like your list of requirements is too long. Or you’re too old (“It’s too late for me”). These are beliefs we have developed to reinforce a mindset of scarcity, or “not enough”. Not enough matches, not enough compatibility, not enough time. These “invisible scripts” grow as we subconsciously reinforce them, every time we see a real-life example.
Last week, I spoke to someone who hasn’t had a girlfriend since 2018… He’s a smart, driven professional working here in Paris. Let’s call him Rajiv. Right now, Rajiv is pursuing his career with all the ambition and focus it requires to thrive. We spoke on Zoom one balmy afternoon when the sun broke precipitously […]